Ok, well here's my little theory of the limitations of Earth bending, based on the observations on the show.
First, lets throw out the idea that Earth bending is based on the state of matter, in this case earth bendings can move anything in the solid state of matter.
Now we know this is not true because not are earth benders not able to move solid ice, but can't bend purified metals.
So this leaves me to believe that i's not the state of matter that's the trigger, but the composed element (and I mean element by the ones on the periodic table).
So lets look at the crust of our own world to compare.
www.windows.ucar.edu/tour/link=/earth/geology/crust_elements.html%26edu=highThe two most common elements in the earth's crust are oxygen (46%) and silicon(27%).
So with this in mind, it would be easy to conclude that 'oxygen' is not the 'trigger element' for if earth benders can bend oxygen, then they would be able to bend oxygen gas, and earth benders can't bend air.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/OxygenSo that leaves the element silicon. It's most abundant form are silcates (particularly Silicon dioxide - SiO2).
Note: Silicon dioxide is made up of one silicon and two oxygen, which is almost consistent with the percentage compostion of the earth's crust (almost 2 oxygen for every silicon).
The most well known form of silcates is 'sand.' Silcates and other more complex silcon compounds are well distributed in throughout the earth's surface.
Silicon has the potential to form diamonds and minerals.
Emerald is a mineral with the chemical formula Be3Al2(SiO3)6::Cr
Note that there's silicon in emerald, therefore earthbenders can bend emerald.
But mant minerals are mainly based on aluminum oxides rather than silcon oxides.
So if earth benders only bend silicon, than they can't bedn ruby(Al2O3::Cr) or sapphire(Al2O3). But hey, maybe earth benders can bend aluminum as well. It is the third most common element in the earth's crust (about 8%)...and my theory of the airbender's limitations is their ability to bend to two compunds nitrogen gas (N2) and oxygen gas (O2).
So in my conclusion, Earth benders can only bend any compounds of silicon...and maybe aluminum. (This also leads me to believe that earth benders can also bend lava if enriched with silica).
To look up any information on any of the compounds or elements I have mentioned, simply wikipedia them.